If you dont solve your own problems, your career development will not go smoothly. Mixed workplace, first of all, to be thick-skinned, but also to be able to afford to put down, in order to light-weight battle. Even if a leader flirts with a female colleague, does he have a wool relationship with you? Are you still jealous? You can do your own thing well. You dont need to rest assured about it at all, which affects your progress.
First, change the psychological advantage. Leaders and female colleagues flirt with you, they are not afraid, do not ask for you, do not coax you, you have become a victim, we can see how fragile you are. First of all, we should reverse the weak mentality of passive beating, raise our heads and chest generously, and form your psychological advantage in front of them, just like a joke paragraph, I know everything.
Second, keep your mouth shut. In such cases, leaders and female colleagues will have a psychological fluctuation process. For a period of time, they were afraid, afraid of you spreading out. If after a period of time, there is no wind and grass, their mentality will change from worry to gratitude. In terms of normal behavior, they will respect you by three points.
Third, we should fight back with righteousness and boldness. If the leader really retaliates on you, such people are too small, you should also treat them in the same way as others. Take three steps, absolutely useful.
The first step is to pay close attention to their whereabouts in private, preferably with recordings and photographs. At the same time, collect evidence that he favors female colleagues to oppress you.
The second step is to talk to the leader privately and tell him that you only want to work well and dont deceive others too much, otherwise, you are not polite.
The third step, if he is still getting worse, you will choose an opportunity to have a superior present, come to the leadership, deliberately loudly say, I want to say one thing. I guess hes scared, and Ill catch you. As long as you dare to go out, you must be afraid of a guilty person.