When a boyfriend wants to use your stuff, it means he has a big problem and you need to break up immediately.

 When a boyfriend wants to use your stuff, it means he has a big problem and you need to break up immediately.

Now he wants to transfer to full-time part-time delivery, but also want to return, many platforms are also overdue.

If you want to transfer to full-time, you need to buy an extra electric car. Otherwise, there is always no electricity and you want to move out as soon as possible. But you have no money on hand, and you want to transfer to full-time delivery as soon as possible to make more money. He said twice that he would use my quota or credit card, but I was afraid that he would borrow money from usury.

He thought that if you dont move out this month, you wont be able to move out next month, and you will also face the problem of money... I persuaded him, but he said there was no way out, and then my heart softened...

Appeal: Cold love, should I borrow his quota? At present, I also have no spare money. If I can only borrow from him by my own quota, his parents cant help him. My sister is disappointed with him and is unwilling to borrow. But Im afraid he will have an accident if he borrows from usurious loans. What should I do? What shall I do?

Love to reply:

There are several types of taxi running, and this story belongs to the debt collector type.

You will find that there is a kind of person in the world who borrows all the credit cards, not counting them. He will also borrow all the online lending platforms, until the online lending can not get the money, and after the mess of credit investigation, he will start to borrow usuriously.

What kind of person is this?

This is a totally reckless person, and every time I feel like I can solve all the problems in the past.

Now this man is in debt of 89,000 yuan. When he borrows from usurious loan, the debt may be 2.3 million yuan. If someone tempts him to mix it with other problems, such as gambling, trying to win, he may be in debt of more than one million yuan at that time.

What does that mean?

This means that such a person, his problem is that his whole values, the whole mode of thinking are problematic.

He used to open an online store and used your quota of more than 30,000 yuan. Now he has to use your quota to buy a car. What if he didnt deliver the takeout? How can you repay the amount owed?

I think you have three things to do now:

First, he opened an online store with your quota, and asked him to write a debit note immediately.

If he doesnt write the debit note right away, the amount owed will be your own amount, that is, he is in debt of 89,000, and you are in debt of 30,000, which is the first thing to do.

Second, never mix your quota with him again.

In your own life, try to be independent.

Think about it first. How can you pay back the 30,000-plus quota? You have to return it yourself. Youre 95 years old. Youre in your 20s. Youre not a kid anymore. Now dont you want to think about your salary?

Suppose you start delivering takeout now and spend a year trying to figure out how to return more than 30,000. Otherwise, your credit will be affected in the future. What should you do?

I can tell you that there is a kind of person in the world that is a whirlpool. When you enter the whirlpool, the lower you turn, the closer you get to the center of the whirlpool, the worse you will get.

Did you understand the question: You didnt have to face all this, you didnt have to face the problem of owed more than 30,000 yuan, would you face such a big problem by yourself?

When two people fall in love or even get married, they form a team. Worst case, you can set up a pig mate, he can not contribute to the team does not matter, but you can not form a team to pull you down.

This person is the teammate who pulls you into the water. When you meet the teammate who pulls you into the water, you know it belongs to the debtor.

When you were young, adults were not allowed to swim in the pond. They said that naughty water monsters in the water would drag you to the depth of the water. You have to understand that this is the kind of person who drags you into the debt spiral.

The best way to communicate in life is to find people who can make themselves better.

Its no wonder that Zhongze Ping Ping lives in partnership with two people, one for you and one for me.

Youre looking for someone who drags you down. Its important to stop losing immediately.

Its beyond your ability, you dont have money, youve spent more than 30,000 yuan, and its far beyond your ability to lend it to him.

As an adult, you can just take care of your own affairs.

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