First, dont ask men with high EQ how to communicate with their wives when facing such problems.
If men with high EQ dont communicate with each other, they will think it is a good thing for their wives to dress up beautifully, and men with high EQ will not encounter such problems.
So in the future, you should focus more on how to improve your EQ.
Secondly, the reason why you are suffering now is nothing more than fear of the other partys derailment.
But what you should show her is not that you are worried about her derailment, but that you are insecure.
Look at you every day dressed beautifully, every day when you come back, you take off your makeup and change your pajamas. I dont think its for me to do that either. So Im a little worried, a little scared and insecure.
Its okay not to blame her, just to express your feelings in this way.
Thirdly, we should know that we should seek benevolence and get benevolence.
If in your concept, a woman who is married and loves to dress up is definitely not for her husband, then you must think that your wifes dress is not for you. In the end, maybe she really is not dressed up for you.
But if your idea is that a woman is married and that dressing up is a good thing, it will become a good thing.
You are an easy recipient of negative thoughts and think about the bad.
Life is really about what you want.
If you think bad about everything, bad things may really come.
If you can think of the best in everything, shes very active in losing weight. Thats a good thing. You should follow her to lose weight.
Is it not a good thing for us to work together and be positive?
Should a woman become a yellow-faced woman after marriage?
Should two people get fat together after marriage?
Should two people begin to lie down when they get home after marriage?
To sum up, the best way to deal with this situation is to be positive with her.
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