A 30-year-old woman who is not married is said to be disgraced by her fathers colleagues and is hospitalized

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 A 30-year-old woman who is not married is said to be disgraced by her fathers colleagues and is hospitalized


Although I would like to say single eat your rice, but think of the identity of the other party, I may really eat it, it is silent tolerance.

However, Xiaowang girl in Xiaoshan, Hangzhou, was recently mocked by a man who was not familiar with her, pointing to her nose: Is it not disgraceful not to marry?

This makes Xiaowang feel too much. She is so angry that she cant calm down in the early morning. She posts to her netizens all night to complain about her misery.

On the night of August 1st, Xiaowang (pseudonym) saw half of the calls from her mother in the cinema movies, and her father quarreled with others in the unit. He was very angry.

She rushed to the factory where her father worked. When she learned what had happened, Xiaowang was completely enraged.

Your daughters are all thirty years old, they are not married, they are not disgraced? This sentence profoundly stimulated Xiaowangs father and daughter.

After reading the posts, the netizens expressed their views one after another. Some supported and sympathized with the girl, and some expressed their feelings combined with their own experience. The next day, there was always a knotty little king and relatives who went to their fathers office again and asked each other to apologize in person.

The male colleague Xiao Chen (alias) who argued with his father Lao Wang is only a few years older than the girl, and has a stubborn temper. He always thinks he is right and refuses to admit his mistakes.

In fact, although Xiao Chen and Xiao Wang are not familiar with each other, they are very familiar with her father, Lao Wang. Xiao Chen is a middle-level person in the company. Lao Wang is also in charge of his family. Xiao Chen is naturally clear about Lao Wangs family situation.

However, because of the differences in working concepts, such as Xiao Chens emphasis on efficiency, Lao Wangs emphasis on slow work and hard work, Xiao Chen and Lao Wang have not been very harmonious.

On August 1st, because of a dispute between two people about their work, this person got angry and took out any abusive words, which made the beginning of this scene.

The next day, however, both sides remained angry, exchanged a few words, and the conflict broke out again.

This time the two sides even began to push each other. In this process, Xiao Wang was so excited that he collapsed on the spot and almost fainted. He was rushed to hospital by his family. His father, Lao Wang, called the police.

Later, the doctor said that the girl had induced hyperventilation and had to stay in hospital for a while.

After receiving the alarm, Xu Yang, a police officer from the Xiaoshan Guali Police Station, went to the scene to dispose of the conflict, which had been full of gunpowder.

Understanding the causes and consequences, Xu Yang believed that if this contradiction was not resolved in time, it would probably lead to a series of serious problems such as fighting and fighting, so he took the initiative to undertake mediation work.

Xu Yang first tried to communicate with Xiao Chen, hoping that he would take the initiative and not let things deteriorate.

But the 30-year-old man was so angry that nine cows could not pull back. He even said that he would rather go to detention than apologize: Did I say something incorrectly? What I said was the truth!

Xu Yang, who had rich experience in mediation, decided to give both sides some time to calm down before doing their work.

During this period, Xu Yang contacted the leaders of both sides and indirectly did a lot of communication and coordination work. The leaders of Xiao Chens unit also visited Xiao Wang in hospital on behalf of Xiao Chen.

A few days later, Xiao Wang was discharged from hospital, but his health was still weak. He was raised at home for several days before he gradually improved. Later, Xu Yang asked both parties to go to the police mediation room of Dangshan Police Station for reconciliation.

At first, the two sides were still a little emotional, but Xu Yang patiently explained, and cooperated with the leaders and relatives of both sides to become uncles and wives.

Once you are detained, you dont care. What about your family, you have children, and you have an insulting criminal record. What do the family think? They dont ask too much, so they apologize! Xiao Chen just cant do it, or hes on the edge of a bull. Whats wrong with me? Whats a rumor?Even he thinks that its just a quarrel, Xiao Wang still lives in the hospital, possibly pretending to be faking it. .

After five or six days of grinding, Xu Yang either contacted by telephone or called the leaders of both sides and units to the police and civilian mediation room of Dangshan Police Station to persuade them. Everyone was exhausted.

Fortunately, as a community policeman, Xu Yang has experienced many times and patiently since he was a policeman for more than ten years.

One phone call, one meeting after another, bitter mother-in-laws heart grinds hard, Xiao Chens attitude slowly eases down.

Xu Yang seized the opportunity and approached the parties and the leaders of the factory to the mediation room. He poured tea to Xiaowang and Xiaochen families and persuaded them patiently.

After several hours of telling the truth, human relations and law, Xiao Chen finally opened his mouth, What you told me is actually reasonable. He expressed his willingness to bear Xiao Wangs medical expenses and make some compensation, and solemnly apologized to Xiao Wang and her father on the spot.

(function () {(window. slotbydup = window. slotbydup | []). push ({id:6374560, container:ssp_6374560, size:300,250, display:inlay-fix, async: true});} (); in fact, this is a minor contradiction, but it escalates gradually because of a breath. As the saying goes, good words are warm in winter, bad words hurt people in June. I hope everyone can compare their hearts with each other, take into account the feelings of others in peacetime, respect others and respect themselves. Of course, the police themselves can be dealt with according to the procedure according to law. The detention and detention, but this does not solve the problem. If detained, the knots on both sides have not been untied, and when they come across, I dont know what other catastrophes will occur. Xu Yang said, Peoples policemen, peoples characters in front of, always have to take care of the people first. Source: Responsible Editor of Qianjiang Evening News: Chengyu_NBJ11143

In fact, this is a very small contradiction, but because a word of anger gradually escalated. As the saying goes, good words are warm in winter, bad words hurt people in June. I hope everyone can compare their hearts with each other, take into account the feelings of others in peacetime, respect others and respect themselves.

Of course, the police themselves can be dealt with according to the procedure according to law. The detention and detention, but this does not solve the problem.

If detained, the knots on both sides have not been untied, and when they come across, I dont know what other catastrophes will occur. Xu Yang said, Peoples policemen, peoples characters in front of, always have to take care of the people first.