The reason why we desire love is because in this love, we can find the true self, we can walk together, we are no longer alone in life and battle.
If your love has come to an end, then you can choose to get together. Dont struggle and tangle in a fictitious relationship, because it cant be forced or perfunctory.
1. Always keep asking for your latest news
After breaking up, if a man still keeps asking for your latest news and whereabouts, and wants to keep abreast of your latest life status, then he has not really put you down.
If a man really abandons you, he will deliberately alienate and neglect you, he will no longer entangle with you, he will no longer want to know everything about you.
Because he has laid you down, so once he breaks up, he will completely clear the line with you, from now on, you do not contact each other.
When a man is particularly cruel to you, after he breaks up with you, he is no longer willing to inquire about your news, even if he occasionally hears your latest news and developments from a common friend, his heart is still free of waves.
Only when a man doesnt really put you down can he keep asking or inquiring about your whereabouts after he breaks up with you. He wants to know how you are doing.
After breaking up, if a man is willing to often trust others to convey his concern for you, it means that he has not really put you down.
If a man really puts you down, he cant help worrying about you after breaking up. In order to express his thoughts and concerns for you, he may entrust a mutual friend to convey his love and care for you.
After breaking up, if a man still cares about you in his heart, he will let you know that he has not really put you down or forgotten you by knocking on the sidelines, even if he refuses to say it clearly.
For example, when you celebrate your birthday, he will carefully select birthday gifts for you and entrust common friends to deliver them to you. When you encounter difficulties, he will also entrust common friends to care about and greet you. When you need money, he will also hand it to you through a common friend.
If a man doesnt take the initiative to care about and ask you about things since he broke up with you, and he never trusts others to convey his love and care for you, it means that he has completely abandoned you.
3. Stay where you are and wait for you to change your mind.
When a man breaks up with you, he will still stand in the same place and wait for you to turn back. It is difficult for him to really get out of the past love. He can not really start a new feeling. That shows that he has always loved you deeply. He really loves you.
After breaking up, to judge whether a man still cant let you go or cant forget you, it depends on whether he has been waiting for you to change his mind. The reason why he promised to break up with you was not that he didnt love you, but that you insisted on breaking up with him. You felt that he could not give you the happiness you wanted.
Although he broke up with you, he will still keep all the good memories about you and go forward bravely. He wants to strive to improve his comprehensive ability and quality. He wants to create better living conditions for you through his struggle and struggle. He looks forward to the day when he becomes stronger and better, he will take the initiative to find you again.
In a word, if a man keeps inquiring about your latest news after breaking up, he often entrusts his common friends to convey his love and care for you, and he also stays in place waiting for you to change his mind, and he hesitates to start a new relationship, then it shows that he still cant put you in his heart. The person he really loves is the one he really loves. You.
If a man breaks up with you, he immediately starts a new relationship, he empties all the memories about you, he no longer has anything to do with you, he refuses to take the initiative to care about and greet you, and he has not had any life intersection with you, then he has completely abandoned you. From then on, you and him will not disturb each other, and each will be well.