Many times break up is because one party has another new love. It may be hard for you to believe that a girl attracts your boyfriend, but you have to face up to the fact that when a man says break up, it is often true that he no longer loves you.
Although he may say ten million reasons for breaking up, but not love is the most direct reason for breaking up. You have to take targeted measures to make it possible for the problem to turn around, otherwise you may be separated and dont know where the problem is.
Second, you need to understand whether the other party is a two-sided person.
Many boys always say one thing and do one thing. You dont know what he really thinks. On the surface, he is a thousand times better than you, but after breaking up, he found that he had such a deep plan, you cant defend against it.
If you meet such a man, you must have a way to subdue him, otherwise you cant make him loyal to you. Love often begins with appreciation and keeps to character.
3. To understand love, one must consider the long term.
If you want to keep a man, you must know how to think about the long term and make some preparations to keep him. If you want to save him, you must first understand him, only understand him, you can love him very well, a lot of words can say to each others heart, let him remember your beautiful appearance.
If a man feels a womans beauty, it is often because he likes her. Therefore, you must understand that in order to be with him in the long run, you must know how to package yourself and let the other party believe that it is happy to be with you. In the long run, you must be the right person for him.
Fourth, we must give him face and not hurt his self-esteem.
Men love face very much. If you have any opinion about him, you must take care of his face. Stay with him and dont hurt his self-esteem. Since you like him, you should tolerate his shortcomings, magnify his advantages, praise and affirm more. Everyone likes his own people.
If you can do that, you will get along very well with him. If you get along well, you will be reconciled when you encounter conflicts.
Every man has a scale in his heart. No matter what conflicts you have had before, as long as you dont touch the principles, men will learn to open their eyes and close their eyes.
Many regrets are often lost. If you understand the other partys problems, then in time to recover or try to influence him, so that there is room for manoeuvre between your feelings.
After all, no one is perfect. No matter who you are with, an inclusive heart must be needed. When you learn to be generous and tolerant, you will be able to get along well with each other. Many unhappiness and embarrassment will be resolved, and the relationship between two people will gradually ease.
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