First, I am afraid he is a cheater, because I personally think that the financial industry cheats a lot of money.
I want to ask him if he has told his parents, but I dont know how to ask, lest he think Im in a hurry to get married. He once told me that his parents are old and want him to get married earlier. I think he should be sincere to me. Do I care too much about him and think too much about him?
Love to reply:
I want to remind you of two things.
The first is that when we just established a relationship, the so-called establishing a relationship means that both of us are trying, and both of us are running into each other.
Isnt it a common phenomenon to break up after running in? Married can divorce, let alone fall in love. So when you are particularly insecure, it may be because you perceive that you are locked in a relationship.
Since the fact is that you are in a hurry to get married, whats the fear of letting him think you are in a hurry to get married? Thats the case. Why cant we face our emotions calmly?
The main thing you have to do now is admit your emotions.
Its so easy to tell him about your feelings.
These two aspects are responses to your story.
In the dialogue, he said: bad health affects the babys health; you said: clearly know that I fear pregnancy.
It sounds like a discussion about your relationship, but no contraceptive measures have been taken. If thats the case, its going to be a key factor in your relationship.
If you cant make it clear on the stage about important things like having a baby or getting pregnant, it will often lead to unnecessary contradictions or potential emotional crises. So Im here to remind you that I hope I can help you.