His ex-wife saw the toys I bought for the children and cried. I didnt meet his ex-wife, which he told me.
I asked him to choose between me and his ex-wife. He was hesitant all the time. I was very angry and said a lot of things that hurt his self-esteem. Then we went to the cold war. I told him that he would come back to me, but they didnt know what to say.
Its only after the stress event that the child suddenly fell ill that he fluctuated, which is normal, but under your push wave, he began to feel guilty, self-accused and began to doubt himself.
If I really want to stay with him, I dont think its the best time to make a choice. Give him time to recover from stressful events, and give himself time to face moral dilemmas.
Push will only make you more confused, in this state of choice, is inevitably impulsive, does not meet the needs of the heart.