The man died 10 days after his wife died in a car accident: she waited until she came back to see me.

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 The man died 10 days after his wife died in a car accident: she waited until she came back to see me.


In the early May 9th, the 6 year old Xiao Dong (the pseudonym) wakes from his sleep and sobs. MS aunt Yang hears crying and huts in and holds him, asking whether she wants his mother, but the child does not speak. At this time, sister Xiao Qing (a pseudonym) is boarding primary school, this 10 year old girl is always worried. Last October, it was the most miserable month for the siblings. First, the mother was killed in a car accident. Her father was hard to accept. She committed suicide 10 days later. Although it has been half a year now, Xiao Qing always puts things in her heart, which makes Ms. Yang very worried. In 10 days, mom and Dad were gone He (cousin) is introverted and concealed in everything. Ms. Yang said later, after introducing her cousin to become a household member, the couple gave birth to a daughter, a child, Xiao Qing and Xiao Dong. The couple are industrious and capable, and they live in peace and beauty. But the misfortune came. Last October 14th, Mrs. Zhang was killed in a car accident on his way out to work. At that time, Mr. Shi was working in the field. After learning the news, she hurried home, but it never accepted the fact. He doesnt believe his wife is gone anymore. He always thinks everyone else is cheating him, and his wife will come back. Miss Yang recalls that in October 25th last year, her cousin was father-in-laws 3rd Anniversary Memorial Day. In October 24th, her cousin left a suicide note and died. In the book, Mr. Shi said, Ive had too many frustrations in my life. I have been happy with my wife to live in this world. Ive been waiting for her to come back to me, but she never showed up. I know I really lost her. Ms. Yang sighed. Finally, her cousin was willing to bury her wife on the same day. Because of her poor health, the two children have been taken care of by her sister since this year. > > School Take care of the child at the expense of relief After family misfortune, Xiao Qings fathers friends, social benevolence and others also gave love donations. In order to avoid the excitement of the interview, the Chinese business reporter did not disturb the younger brothers and sisters. Joan Chen, the principal, said he and his teachers felt sorry after knowing the misfortune of Xiao Qings home. In addition to reducing the cost of Xiaoqing and the donation of love, he also loved the little brothers and sisters in their study and life. Xiao Dong goes to kindergarten not far away from home. Ma Hongling, the principal of the kindergarten, says that Xiao Dongs character is more cheerful, and he is very lively and obedient in kindergarten. Before we took the children to the supermarket to experience the shopping, the little East said to buy a bag of vinegar to go back to his mother for cooking, and that mother was not here now, and then bought a bag of salt and said to her aunt (Ms. Yang). Ma Hongling said it was a pain for the young ladys brother. The garden was also relieved of the cost of the small East. It would try to take care of the children and let the children grow up healthily and happily. Teacher Moderate care and vigilance of trauma stress disorder At present, two children do not have many difficulties in living and learning. But Ms Yang is still worried, especially her mental health. Although Xiao Dong is young, she knows that her mother is not here, and sometimes she wakes up. Ma Wanqiu, the three level psychologist of the state, the head of the psychological discipline of the special education school in Weinan, and the president of the Weinan warm childrens commonweal Association, have made psychological counseling for Xiao Qing and understand her situation. She analyzed that Mr. Shi died in her childhood, but her family suffered a series of misfortune, but lacked counseling, and anxiety could not find a smooth channel. And adults may think that at that time, Mr. Shi was too young to be sensible, and did not lead him to treat these things correctly, which led to a long accumulation of bad mood and very fragile psychology. The psychological collapse of a loved ones death has also led to the repetition of his childhood. In order to avoid the problem that the sister and brother, especially Xiao Qing appear to be similar to the father, she and some volunteers have carried out psychological guidance for Xiaoqing, and carried out scientific analysis and evaluation of the childrens psychology through painting and sand table to guide them to vent their bad emotions and build a positive personality tendency to avoid the formation of intergenerational trauma. Ma Wanqiu hoped that society and schools should pay close attention to the psychological trend of their children. But we should pay attention to appropriate care and scientific guidance. She analyzed to avoid two injuries to children, such as not letting children know the details of their fathers suicide, and mentioning them as little as possible. If children suffer from traumatic symptoms, avoidance and numbness symptoms, and heighten alertness for more than one month, children need to receive psychological treatment for PTSD (post - traumatic stress disorder). Wei Nan, a reporter of the Chinese business newspaper