A wife must earn money first and refuse to give birth to a child. A man cuts his wife and mother-in-law with a knife.

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 A wife must earn money first and refuse to give birth to a child. A man cuts his wife and mother-in-law with a knife.


Zhang Chong, who has been arrested in the three County Detention Center of Mianyang, Sichuan, regrets that he has waved his knife to his wife and mother-in-law because of his impulse. More than a month ago, Zhang Chong hurried from Chengdu to his wifes home in Li Shu Town, the three county. He cut his wife and mother-in-law, and was arrested by the local police station after the incident. In recent days, the Chengdu Commercial Daily reporter learned from various surveys that Zhang Chongzhi was so cruel that he had refused to give birth to his wife Yang Fen. In Yang Fens opinion, we should earn more money out of work, and lay a good foundation for family and children. Marital emergency He wants a child, his wife wants to make money first When he married Yang Fen, Zhang Chong was 37 and Yang Fen was 31. Zhang Chong always wanted to have a baby with his wife earlier. Yang Fen is a Li Shu town in three counties. After graduating from junior high school, he went out to work. In 2013, it was introduced to the people of Zigong who worked in Chengdu, Zhang Chong. The two people had good feelings for each other, and the marriage certificate was handled in the same year. After marriage, Zhang Chong discussed with Yang Fen, hoping to have a baby earlier. But Yang Fen did not think about the birth of children, think that the two people in Chengdu did not stand on the heel, the child will bring greater pressure, and is not conducive to the growth of the child, so she refused the husband. In order to let his wife feel at ease, Zhang Chong and his wife bought a suite in Chengdu to prepare for settlement and development. Having a house and having a new home, although it is necessary to repay the mortgage every month, in Zhang Chongs opinion, he and his wife work in Chengdu, and life is still guaranteed. At the end of the same year, he talked with his wife about the birth of a child again, and was still refused by his wife on the condition that the economy was not mature. Zhang Chong said he bought a car for his wife, but his wife still did not want to have children, and even asked for work in other provinces. He once suspected that Yang Fen had been tempted outside, so he did not agree with her going out to work. The differences between the two sides escalated again and again. In 2015, Yang Fen filed for divorce. Zhang Chong did not want to divorce. He said he cares too much about the marriage, he loved his wife Yang Fen too. At first, he thought it was the wifes refusing to have a child. After another quarrel He cut his wife and mother-in-law with a knife Although two people bought a house in Chengdu to buy a car, Yang Fen still went to Hainan to work in 2017. The couple began to live apart from each other. During this period, Zhang Chong sent Yang Fen greetings to Yang Fen every morning, such as good morning and good night. In February 14th of this year, Zhang Chong also quarreled with Yang Fen on the phone because of having children and divorce. Later, Yang Fen took Zhang Chongs phone and WeChat to black. This time, Zhang Chong was completely infuriated. In March 8th, Zhang Chong learned that Yang Fen had returned to Li Shus hometown. In March 13th, he came to his fathers home in Li Shu, hoping to have a good talk with Yang Fen. But this time, the two did not talk about how long they quarreled. After the quarrel, Zhang Chong touched the knife and chopped at Yang Fens neck. Yang Fen dodged, and the knife fell on her face. But Zhang Chong did not stop, and continued to wave his knife to Yang Fen, causing Yang Fens face, neck and arm to be injured. Zhang Chongs mother-in-law, aunt Shaw, came to stop. At this point, Zhang Chong waved his knife to his mother-in-law, causing her face and left hand to be injured. The father in law, Lao Yang, listened to the movement and ran after the farm implements. Zhang Chong fled from the scene. Later, taking into account the injuries of her daughter and his wife, Lao Yang returned to his home, when the two daughters had dialed 120 and 110. The police station of the three counties, new town, was alertly rushed to the scene. The relevant person in charge of the police station said that when they arrived, the injured had been sent to the local health center for treatment, and the police received the suspect Zhang Chongdang on the road. In April 26th, when the Chengdu Commercial Daily reporter came to find Lao Yang in Li Shu Town, he and Xiao Ma were collecting rapeseed on the slope. Xiao Mas face had an obvious scar from her eyes to her mandible. She said that her daughter and son-in-law divorced because of having children, and she and her wife hoped that they could talk about it well, and did not expect Zhang Chongjing to make such a vicious move. The police said that Yang Fen and his mother were injured by a minor injury and a minor injury, but Zhang Chong was in the mind of intentional murder and was prepared to commit suicide. At present, Zhang Chong has been arrested by the police on suspicion of intentional homicide. Husband regrets It moves too much, let a home be finished. Wife and family: his love is so overbearing that we cant stand it. In the detention house, Zhang Chong has been thinking about the injuries of Yang Fen and his mother-in-law. After knowing that it was just a slight injury, he was relieved that he hated his wife, but now he did not want his wife to be hurt. He said that he loved Yang Fen too much, and was reluctant to leave her, hoping to have a child with her, but he had been rejected. Because of love and hate, she had not been able to control her emotions and made an excesses. Zhang Chong said that, because he was 37 years old when he was married, some of his classmates had already been in junior high school. He was very jealous. The old mother also hoped to hold his grandson earlier. After Yang Fen had refused, he could understand that he could earn a better life after earning more money. Later, two people bought a room and a car, living in a step by step, but he started to expect that, since 2015, because he had always wanted children, Yang Fen put forward a divorce, he was not in mind at the time. Since 2017, Yang Fen has filed for divorce more frequently and has gone to Hainan to work. After thirty, I want to have a complete home in my heart, I hope to have a child early, and more hope to have a child before she is 35 years old, otherwise she will become a senior woman. Zhang Chong said that two people earn enough for their families every month, and they will make more efforts to earn money, so they want to have a child. Moreover, after Yang Fen went out to work, he also heard some rumors about Yang Fen, which enhanced his desire to have children. He thought that if he had children, Yang Fen would not go out to work, and would not go out. I cant figure out. Ive been married for 5 years. Im over 40 years old. She is over 35 years old. She has become a senior maternal. Why cant she have children? And the economic situation at home is not particularly bad. I regret it now. I am too impulsive to make a family end. Zhang Chong said, if there is another opportunity, he hopes to have a good communication with his wife, Yang Fen. In the police investigation, Yang Fen said he loved Zhang Chong more, but Zhang Chong did not want her to go out to work, but she had to give birth at home. At the same time, Xiao Ma said that the housing was jointly funded by the two sides. Most of the vehicles were Yang Fens money, and Zhang Chong only paid 10 thousand yuan. Mr. Shaw said Zhang Chong wanted Yang Fenshengs children, but in Yang Fens view, the economic foundation was not good. He wanted to earn a little more money and regenerate the child. So he wanted to go to Hainan to work, but Zhang Chong was strongly opposed. He just wanted to give him a baby, and he didnt think about the future. Police investigators also confirmed that Yang Fen really wanted to earn more money and then consider giving birth. Otherwise, even with children, it would increase the burden on two people. Zhang Chong also explained that he wanted to have a child as soon as possible, but was rejected by Yang Fen. The first money or the husbands baby Whats the problem? Liu Linlin, National Certified Senior counselor of marriage emotion and special psychological expert of Beijing Normal University This is a pseudo proposition It is not either this or the other It can be continued and can occur together. Liu Lin Lin, the founder of the psychological Union, the national certified marriage emotion counselor, and a special psychological expert at Beijing Normal University, said the story was unfortunate, two of the couple were injured, the womans body and mind were damaged, and the man would be in jail. But it was a tragedy that could have been avoided. The root cause is the bitter result of improper communication in marriage. Liu Linlin said that it is a false proposition to earn money first or to be a child. Because every family and individual life individual may have different thoughts and decisions at different stages of life, and may also make different decisions at the same stage for different events and news stimuli. You can earn money first, you can also have children first, or you can earn children while you earn money. These two are not contradictory bodies. They can exist or happen together. For both sides of the marriage, having children is a very important matter. Taking a responsible attitude to discuss this problem, to choose a time node that both sides think is wise and appropriate is to give birth to a life, which should be very certain. The key to the problem is that if the wife thinks that he will earn money first and then have children, then how much money can he earn? Is there a time bottom line? (after all, the medical point of view is that the risk of elderly parturient is not small). If the goal of earning money has not always been achieved, how can we adjust the childs time? The man wants the woman to have a child early, so what can the men make to protect her safety (especially psychological safety) when she is worried about the material conditions and the economic base? Therefore, the two people are constantly quarreling, because two people have no way to share the feelings and needs of the other side, so this problem has not been a result of 5 years, the woman may be in the state of physical and mental fatigue, feeling disappointed, the divorce, divorce may be a real idea, may be a moment of breath, the man may be possible So it was so grieving that I had been waiting for so many years that the child didnt get there, and the wife left me, angry and desperate, and made a lifetime of regret. In this regard, Liu Linlin said that marriage requires continuous communication and cooperation between husband and wife. Communication needs skills and methods. Emotions need empathy and management. Only by taking each other as comrades rather than enemies can we truly understand each other in major events, support each other and make the best decisions for themselves. Jiang Zhiqiang, vice president of the Sichuan Provincial Family Education Research Association and professor of Southwest University of Science and Technology, said that Zhang Chongs actions to hurt wives and mother-in-law are illegal, and this is a measure that can not be taken when any contradiction occurs. Jiang Zhiqiang said that making money or a child is worth thinking about every family. When the two conflicts arise, one side must compromise. Families need two couples to build and operate together, and no extreme measures like Zhang Chong can be adopted. The difference between husband and wife is very normal, not a matter of principle, nor is it a non - problem. I call this the principle of non - right and wrong because it makes sense, in this case, there must be a concession by one party. If the two sides views fail to reach agreement, it may lead to intensification of contradictions. Jiang Zhiqiang said that in this case, it is suggested that both husband and wife seek counseling and psychological counselling from marriage experts. (the characters are aliases). The source: Chengdu business daily editor: Yang Qiang _NN6027 Jiang Zhiqiang, vice president of the Sichuan Provincial Family Education Research Association and professor of Southwest University of Science and Technology, said that Zhang Chongs actions to hurt wives and mother-in-law are illegal, and this is a measure that can not be taken when any contradiction occurs. Jiang Zhiqiang said that making money or a child is worth thinking about every family. When the two conflicts arise, one side must compromise. Families need two couples to build and operate together, and no extreme measures like Zhang Chong can be adopted. The difference between husband and wife is very normal, not a matter of principle, nor is it a non - problem. I call this the principle of non - right and wrong because it makes sense, in this case, there must be a concession by one party. If the two sides views fail to reach agreement, it may lead to intensification of contradictions. Jiang Zhiqiang said that in this case, it is suggested that both husband and wife seek counseling and psychological counselling from marriage experts. (the characters in the text are all pseudonyms)