The heroine of this blind date is Chen Ke, a 33 year old Guiyang man (a pseudonym). Chen Ke said that she had heard of some wonderful dating experiences before, but she met her with a long experience. One evening in mid March this year, Chen Kes mother took a walk in the park near her home after dinner, and met a friend who was eager to introduce Chen Ke to her. This person, the man is very excellent, the family has a few suites, with Chen Kes age is similar, can come out to meet to know, Chens mother went home after he could not wait for the matter. A few days later, the blind mans father called Chen Ke to face up. Chen Ke and his blind man later joined WeChat. However, since then, his father has not come to information, his father called to inform, he was very busy recently, wait for a busy contact, Chen Ke did not put it on the heart, until the day, a blind man suddenly sent news about to dinner, she gladly to the appointment. On the first side, I felt that it might not be appropriate. I didnt chat with him long before I came back. Later, he chatted with me on WeChat and met for second times. I thought my parents were so active that I went to meet him on second sides. Chen Ke said that after seeing her, she still felt unsuitable, and the response was not so positive when she met her again. Later, the blind man asked me, and I told him that we were not suitable, so we did not get in touch. Two weeks later, the matchmaker suddenly asked Chen Ke to go to his home and talk again. Chen refused. After another two weeks, she had been refused to meet Chen Ke again. My deepest impression is, you girls are too picky. You are not married now. When you are 40 years old, you see who else wants you... I said, girls pick the reasons for the pick, boys are not picked, only know that girls, boys age (unmarried) is not to say that there is no problem at all. When the conversation broke up, Chen Ke finally deleted the blind mans WeChat. I thought the blind date was a full stop. After a month or so, there was still a follow-up to her eye opening. After more than a month, his father suddenly called my mother, saying that two people did not make a word, that two meals half a person, let me back one hundred to his son. My mother has been muddled. Ive never met such a person before. I told my mother not to take care of him... As a result, his father called again and told me that he didnt repay the money. Chen Ke finally returned one hundred yuan by a blind mans colleague. Chen Ke recalled this experience of blind date. Chen Ke said, sharing their experiences, want to remind the girls: be careful in blind dates. Some netizens feel that the practice of the man is not so great. Just ask for the two meal. What can you do? And ask for money if you want the money. You can tell the girl and yourself why you want your parents to help you do something disgusting. It @ sweet meow teacher: you have to come by yourself, through your parents, for fear that it has not been weaned. @SMile-Sourire: you should not find a girlfriend @ mothers girl: but the disgusting nature of the men is to ask their parents to ask for money. 98185: a big man, you say this sentence to doomed you to be single for life, what a big thing, if I give you all the money, please. But there are also some netizens who believe that two people cant make a blind date, and that AA should be a good meal. @ LANCO Yue: is there a problem? Personally, I think no problem. Why do we need a man to have dinner? Isnt a lot of people talking about equality between men and women? To tell the truth, girls can spend 10 cents on blind dates, but according to the principle of paying men, blind dates cant be true, not lovers. @ the clear person in the confused age ZY: I personally feel that the etiquette is to the etiquette, the man should not be a kind of atmosphere, it is a kind of courtesy to the girls, but then the words come back, the boys choice is not wrong, it is no problem from the logic, the meal is the two peoples expense, the other party should be after the other side. The initiative to give their own money to others, no matter what relationship, this is also respect for others, whether it is someone elses business. @ Mamas girl: I dont think its a problem. Even if the other person doesnt want it, he should be AA, the other is his thing or not, and the other person wants it. The question of AA is not Chinese characteristics, but also foreign countries. An American sister and an appointment went out to eat, and after a meal, her sister felt that the two people were not very suitable and did not want to continue to develop. When the man invited her again, she chose not to return a text message, so that the relationship between the two people was naturally cold. Unexpectedly, soon after, the man sent her an e-mail, detailing two peoples bills at meal time, asking their sister A for a meal. He also sent text messages to his younger sister, saying that if he did not give money, he would find a debt collection company to solve this problem. Foreign netizens also divided the two schools of opinion: To support my sister: Anyone who asks for an invitation will pay the dinner, no matter how the date goes, unless the two person decides to have AA before the date. You should also send him an invoice to let him pay for the time you wasted on that date. As my grandmother used to say, if a man takes charge of you, dont waste your time. It is wrong to say that my sister is wrong. This girl is so immoral that I dont even pay my own meals. This girl is wrong, you dont want to see anyone anymore, and you dont pay your half of the dinner. He asked her out, they went on a date together, and she didnt want to continue to develop. Thats all right. She didnt owe him anything. But you cant hang on to a person all the time. When you go back to someones message, you say you dont want to go on, do you? The discussion of blind date or AA actually reflects the problem of communication. Take the example of Xiao Chen, the reason why she is angry is: 1, the man actively invites himself, under normal circumstances, by the active invitation to pay the money, reasonable. Even between ordinary friends, inviting the other party to eat, their own money, is also normal things; 2, if a statement to eat in advance to AA, then she can accept, but the man did not say in advance; 3, the most angry is that the man is not to find her to ask for money, but to let parents come, appear too low. Source: Peninsular Morning Post editor: Zhang Xianchao _NN9310 He asked her out, they went on a date together, and she didnt want to continue to develop. Thats all right. She didnt owe him anything. But you cant hang on to a person all the time. When you go back to someones message, you say you dont want to go on, do you? The discussion of blind date or AA actually reflects the problem of communication. Taking Xiao Chens example, the reason for her anger is: 1, the man takes the initiative to invite himself. Under normal circumstances, it is reasonable to pay by the party who is invited to take the initiative. Even if it is normal friends, invite each other to eat and pay for themselves is normal. 2, if it is stated in advance that a meal is AA, then she can accept it, but the man did not say so in advance. 3, the most annoying thing is that the man did not come to her for money, but asked her parents to ask for it too low.