The man failed in his business and left his wife for 20 years.

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 The man failed in his business and left his wife for 20 years.


Xie Zexin was originally a local central primary school teacher, more than 20 years ago with 5000 yuan out of business, the road to entrepreneurship is not smooth, the last and home contact is in March 1998, the public telephone simply said the collection, even buy laundry powder money are not, to go to work, 3000 yuan a month. Then the phone broke off in a hurry. When Xie Zexin left home, his son was only 4 years old, and his youngest daughter was only a few months old. The heavy burden of life on the tribe of Xie Le Sheng, and later Xie Zexins mother also left the world, for more than 20 years, Xie Lesheng has been looking for the missing son, but the vast sea, no voice. After a few minutes of recognition, Xie Lesheng told his son that his grandson suffered from uremia and double renal failure. Xie Zexin immediately decided to go to Chengdu to check if his kidney could be transplanted to his son. He tried to make up for his debts to the family. Xie Xin Xin Out of contact Failure to start a business, he abandoned his wife for 20 years. In the evening of April 13th, Xie Zexin took a full 34 hours of bus and black car, from Dongguan to Nanchong, Bazhong, and then back to Tongjiang county seat. Since the failure of business in 1996 and after being transferred to Handan, Hebei, Xie Zexin has not been home for more than 20 years. Xie Zexin remembered that it was raining heavily on that day. At noon on the 14 day, Xie Zexin walked up to his fathers house in the town of Liu Zhi Ping, Shaxi town. He looked up and saw an old tree behind him. It was the coffin wood that had been prepared for the mother in the early years, but now it is gone, that only means that the mother is gone. Entering the house, the television was on, but there was no one in the family. Xie Zexin thought to himself that the worst result was that his father was not there. In a few moments, the back door squeaking, shelson, 75, pushed in with a straw hat and looked up, and a strange, fat middle-aged man knelt down on his knees and looked like a madman. Which one are you? Xie Lesheng thought he had entered the bad man. You dont go? The other side, I dont go. You do, I hit 110! You hit 110 and I wont go. Seeing the other person crying, Xie Le Sheng shouted to the girl who was sleeping at home. A few minutes later, Xie Zexin heard the news that his heart was broken. His son Xie Feng, who was diagnosed with uremia in 2013, is in urgent need of kidney replacement. He is now hospitalized in Chengdu. 20 years: the father of the seventies is looking around Dating back to 22 years ago, in 1996, Xie Zexin, a teacher, gave up his job and left without saying good-bye to his family. The family was told that Xie Zexins leaving was still heard from his relatives. That year, Xie Zexins mother went to relatives and heard that he had gone to business. Xie Lesheng said. After hearing the news, the family began to look for Xie Zexin everywhere. It was not until March 25, 1998 that Xie Zexin contacted his family. This was the last time he had ever had contact with his family. Xie Lesheng recalled that at that time, his son called the towns public telephone to let people bring letters, so that his family could wait for his phone call. On the phone, Xie Zexin simply said a few words, and the phone was hastily hung up. He said he was in Dongguan, Guangdong, as if he had been kept in a shelter. He had no money in his body. He could not afford to buy detergent. Later, he found his identity was released through a survey. He also said that he was going to work outside the country immediately, with a salary of 3000 yuan a month, and then hung up the phone. Since then, Xie Zexin has evaporated as usual, and no news has been heard. In 2006, Xie Le Sheng tried to find his son through the education department, but there was no result. In 2008, Xie Le Shengs wife diagnosed cerebral atrophy. Xie Le Sheng cultivated land for himself, raised pigs, and took care of his wife, his daughter and two grandchildren. At this time, even if I want to find my son, I can not afford it. 22 years, time flies, and many changes in the family: in 2013, the son of Xie Le Sheng suffered from uremia, and his wife died in 2016. Xie Lesheng also tried to seek help from the media. In 2016, he contacted CCTVs search program, the other came to take a video, but did not broadcast; in September, he sent news on Bazhong television, but no news; in October, he went to Beijing to find his son, but still no fruit. After trying all kinds of ways, Xie Le Sheng gave up looking for it. At that time, there was no confidence, and there was no way out. Xie Zexins wife, Guo Ruzhen In the past 20 years, we entered factories, made concrete, helped big stalls, and kept hotels. Why dont you go home? Disgrace, cant go to the heart of the road The decision to go home, Xie Zexin said, took less than 20 seconds. In April 10th, Xie Zexin, who worked in a small hotel opened by a friend, was on the evening shift. At 2 p.m. in the park, he suddenly wanted to go home. More than a months wages are not cheap, cheap and cheap to carry away baggage, with almost 10 thousand yuan savings, Xie Xin Xin went home. Why did you leave home in the same year? What has happened over the past 20 years? Xie Zexin said he had been in Dongguan all the time. Xie Zexin said that more than 20 years ago, teachers salaries were very low, and they only had to work alone and their incomes were not high. At the beginning, although it was also seen what to do, business was relatively smooth. In 1996, Xie Zexin bought two pigs and sent them to Wanyuan, but the two cars did not receive money, almost ten thousand yuan. More than 10000 at that time. This made Xie Zexin fall into a predicament. All his savings were filled in and he owed money to buy pigs. Then we went to Handan, Hebei. Xie Zexin had intended to borrow some money from his brother-in-law. He did not borrow it, and the brother-in-law asked him to work together in the mine, but only for more than two months, the small coal mine had an accident, stopped production in an all-round way, and did not work. Let people bring home 1000 yuan, leaving hundreds of them. In December 31st of 1997, Xie Zexin remembered vividly this day. He went to Guangzhou alone, carrying his bag. Nothing knows. Xie Zexin arrived at Guangzhou Railway Station, and soon after, he was deceived by the black agent who was hired by the station outside the station. There was no way. Xie Zexin stopped a patrolling policeman on the road. That night, the patrol team bought him a meal. On the second day, considering the number of factories in Dongguan, the captain bought Xie Zexin a ticket to Dongguan, and sent a patrol to send him out of Whampoa. Without acquaintances and friends, Xie Zexin could only touch one by one, and found concrete work on the construction site. Do not work at home, nor have you swept the floor. Xie Zexin said that there was no need to say it. At the construction site, he met a small townsman in the same county. One day, the little fellow turned Xie Zexins family to empty and empty, including the 1000 yuan he had managed to save. There is only one bed bed, a bed. Xie Zexin said there was not even one change. There was nothing left, and it was hot in summer. Xie Zexin could not bear to leave the building. There is no two generation ID card and no temporary residence permit. Xie Zexin helps the big stalls and canteens in the town, and five hundred or six hundred of the month is enough for renting. Later, Xie Zexin saved up some money to start running the manpower tricycle, and then the car was taken away. Friends introduced, Xie Zexin went to a small hotel, 10 hours a day night shift, a full 4 years, did not rest for a day. It was that time to get fat. Xie Zexin said, leaving home only more than 90 Jin, now more than 160 Jin. The doctor said that the physiological function is in disorder and can not be reduced. Why did not go home for more than 20 years? Xie Zexin said, he summed up, grew up with the grandfather (grandfather) grandmother, at that time the grandfathers parents are still, and the grandfather is only two daughters, their own is the first child, loved, when reading, not with people red face, fight, girl character. Since childhood has not suffered setbacks, so can not accept. After returning, Xie Zexins classmates asked him to see the counselor. Xie Zexin said, no, I know it. A person outside, the most afraid of is the Chinese New Year holiday, afraid to see others family family reunion, but can not show. Xie Zexin said that these years, he has always been awakened at four or five a.m., where is the mood? I used to think that I could go home very soon and earn money to pay my debts, but I never thought of it. Make up Son: 5 years ago, it was unfortunate to find uremia In 2013, Xie Zexins son, Xie Feng, worked in Shanghai. He felt sick and went back to his hometown to see a doctor. Like a symptom of a heavy cold. Xie Zexins wife, Guo Ruzhen, said that at that time, according to the heavy cold to treat, later, Xie Fengs condition aggravated, within one day, from the hospital in Tongjiang to Bazhong, and to West China Hospital, the hospital immediately under the crisis notice, double kidney failure, uremia. At that time, Erjie was kneeling down from door to door to save the child. Sister Guo Ruzhen said. After pulling back from the devils gate, Xie Feng had to undergo three dialysis sessions a week, initially in Bazhong, and later reimbursed to Tongjiang. Guo Ruzhen also works in a factory, earning only 1000 yuan a month. In early 2018, Xie Fengs uncle and aunt sent Xie Feng and Guo Ruzhen to Chengdu. Friends, Xie Feng every Wednesday day, from a double flow for more than an hour bus, to a hospital in Wenjiang dialysis, 4 hours each time. For each dialysis, the cost of dialysis is more than 400. Not counting the cost of taking medicine, it costs thousands of dollars per week. Guo Ruzhen in the garage garage door, from 6 a.m. to 12 pm, only 1000 yuan a month. Xie Yan, her youngest daughter, had no money to study because of her brothers illness. Guo Ruzhen knew from her son that her husband was back. Guo Ruzhen said that when her husband left, he heard no news. I didnt think about finding another one, but I wondered if it would be bad for dolls. Anyway, we are together. Guo Ruzhen said that her husband came back and came back, and others said unclear. Xie Zexin, the son of uremia, Xie Feng Father: 22 years late for fathers love to donate the kidneys to the son Give my kidneys to my son! Xie Zexin immediately proposed to match his son. All this is my mistake. On the 14 day, Xie Zexin wanted to get to Chengdu immediately, but there was a heavy rain, and the two generation of identity cards must be made up, and the mothers death was on the 22 day. On the afternoon of 23, at 4 oclock, Xie Zexin arrived at the north gate station in Chengdu. The childs uncle called a car online and went to a district of Jiujiang town in Shuangliu district. Outside the community, son Xie Feng, daughter Xie Yan and her aunt are waiting at the door. By intuition. Xie Zexin said that when he left, his son was only a few years old, and his daughter was only a few months old. Now his son is 1.75 meters old. Joking, if its not for illness, the girls who should chase him should be in a long line. Progress The blood type of father and son is inconsistent, whether the match is successful or not for 10 days. Now, Xie Feng and Xie Yan havent called Dad yet. Xie Feng, who was lying on the dialysis bed, grinned grimently and pulled out a smile. I cant cry out. I havent lived with him. I feel strange. Xie Feng said, but before the meeting had been added with WeChat, although there was nothing to talk about, not asked what experienced, but read the picture, which made him get out of Xie Zexin when he got out of the car, look like Grandpa. I heard grandpa calling, Daddy is home. Xie Feng was shocked. After her father left home, her mother worked outside the country all year round. She heard many rumors after her grandparents grew up. Hate? Xie Feng said, no hate, but no feeling. After Xie Zexin came to Chengdu for three nights in a row, Xie Feng asked him, have you considered it? Do you talk to your mother again? Xie Zexin is very firm, and it doesnt need to be discussed again. Only I can do it, only I have to do it. Xie Zexin said that his son may be worried whether he will have an impact on his health. On the 6 and 7 th, Xie Zexin also had two tests to be done, and the final matching result had to wait until about 10 days. The situation is not very good now. Xie Zexin said that his blood type is B, and his son is A. Although he still has to look at the matching results, he can feel that his sons emotions are somewhat affected. In addition, there is an important reason that there is no money at home. In the past five years, Xie Feng spent about thirteen forty thousand doctors, all by his aunt and uncle, but now he should do kidney transplantation, at least about 200000 yuan. After more than 20 years home, Xie Zexin was fat, lost his hair and white. Even his accent was unconsciously spoken in Mandarin, but he wore a neat shirt and black pants, some old but clean leather shoes for more than half a month, and Xie Zexin found a lot of uremia and kidney transplant information from the Internet. In May 2nd, Xie Yan went to Chongzhou for a job interview, and Xie Zexin communicated with WeChat. I advised her not to worry about it, but to look for it slowly. Xie Zexin is slowly finding his fathers role. Source: Chengdu business daily editor: Zhao Yaping _NN9005 On the 6 and 7 th, Xie Zexin also had two tests to be done, and the final matching result had to wait until about 10 days. The situation is not very good now. Xie Zexin said that his blood type is B, and his son is A. Although he still has to look at the matching results, he can feel that his sons emotions are somewhat affected. In addition, there is an important reason that there is no money at home. In the past five years, Xie Feng spent about thirteen forty thousand doctors, all by his aunt and uncle, but now he should do kidney transplantation, at least about 200000 yuan. After more than 20 years home, Xie Zexin was fat, lost his hair and white. Even his accent was unconsciously spoken in Mandarin, but he wore a neat shirt and black pants, some old but clean leather shoes for more than half a month, and Xie Zexin found a lot of uremia and kidney transplant information from the Internet. In May 2nd, Xie Yan went to Chongzhou for a job interview, and Xie Zexin communicated with WeChat. I advised her not to worry about it, but to look for it slowly. Xie Zexin is slowly finding his fathers role.