Network picture Netizen @xufang888 is very entangled recently: he is satisfied with his life, but his girlfriend and girlfriends family are not satisfied, which makes him do not know how to face... At the age of 33, the only son, a native of Ningbo, is currently earning but unemployed. Both parents have many pensions and no family burden. When I was 19 years old, I went to Australia to work. I tried all kinds of hard work. Finally, I saved up a sum of money to buy a set of storefront houses in Ningbo and rent a house with two rooms and one hall. Perhaps because of previous experience too hard abroad, which led him to return to the home after only idle days, most like to have nothing to do at home playing a game of dog, clean the home, clean their own small days. The situation of a girlfriend Ningbo people, the only child, have a stable job and earn 5000 monthly income. The home condition is slightly worse than the male, and it will not be much worse. Womens parents are very dissatisfied with the work situation of the men, and think that a grand sea returnee should be a non - unemployed tourist. It is a waste of resources and can not see the attitude of not seeking to advance. Mutual interaction and economic accounts The two economy is independent, giving gifts to each other during festivals and holidays. The man thinks he saves the habit in foreign countries and spends less money at ordinary times; but at home, the money is paid by him about 3000 yuan per month, and a month can save a lot of money. But the woman spends more money, and the monthly salary is spent all the time. As for getting married and having children, the man thinks that this should be something that two parties should bear. So it seems that money will not be enough. Network picture @xufang888 says, now he feels - Grieving grievances I was really sorry, was I really wrong? My father only worked hard for 10 years, and then retired in the forties. I fought too, and then I was able to enjoy retirement in my thirties. Didnt I make progress? I do not admit I chew the old, because I collect the rent enough for me, and I usually do not like to spend money, like cooking, usually eat myself, and save a lot of money every month, but my girlfriend and parents say I am so young that I have no job at home all day. It is also very entangled At home now has no place, because girlfriends parents are sick of it. I dont understand why money is enough. Why do we have to work so hard to travel and enjoy life? I feel different now because of different ideas, but I still cant bear to break up. In this regard, the netizen expressed different opinions: Some people say, they dont really get into it. @ pig who loves peach: if you dont work, you will lose a lot of things, such as social circles, especially men. @ time debris: this asset, this income, you want to live on your own, its your freedom, but its really not enough to get married and make a son, and its really too bad. If I was a womans family, I would have abandoned you. Young people, do not compare your father to the times, the time is different, not to mention, you are 19 years old to suffer, and your fathers laziness, if this can be inherited, the woman will be more dislike. @sftlol: Thirty of the people are doing what grandparents do. At least I dont think it is suitable. People should not choose ease in the most young years. @ goodbye, ideal @qq: actually, its not a matter of money and money. The Chinese are the few industrious people in the world who are conflicting with your ideas. Some people say its no problem now. Its not necessarily enough to live in the future @ Bobo city @sina: a set of storefront and a set of 2 rooms and 1 halls to rent, to be honest, it is a little more than the ordinary wage earners money. But for old Ningbo, you are poor in this condition. I am also a few years older than you, the brother revolution has not been successful, and the comrades still need to work hard! Others say, no problem. A girlfriend is willing to do it @ Mu Mu Xi 316: the house for rent is also his own profit, I think there is no problem, life is once, if you can have time and material ability to enjoy life well, why do you have to work? @ blue azure: the commentary is interesting. Some women at home do housework with children. Some people should not think this girl is not motivated. If there is a lot of people who can receive rents like this article, @[email protected]: if your girlfriend is willing or not, if you want, you will have no problem. The two of you are going to live without having to talk about what others say, especially the parents of both sides. Source: CNG Web Editor: Qiao Jing _NN6607 @ Mu Mu Xi 316: the house for rent is also his own profit, I think there is no problem, life is once, if you can have time and material ability to enjoy life well, why do you have to work? @ blue azure: the commentary is interesting. Some women at home do housework with children. Some people should not think this girl is not motivated. If there is a lot of people who can receive rents like this article, @[email protected]: if your girlfriend is willing or not, if you want, you will have no problem. The two of you are going to live without having to talk about what others say, especially the parents of both sides.