Media: campus bullying is closer to your child than you think.

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 Media: campus bullying is closer to your child than you think.


Last December, the Ministry of education and other 11 departments jointly issued the strengthening of the comprehensive management program for bullying of primary and middle school students. Unfortunately, similar events still occur frequently, which seems to confirm the opening of the program. It is the key and difficult point for primary and secondary school to strengthen the comprehensive management of bullying. In Hepu, Guangxi, the difficult to govern campus bullying is presented to these outsiders with a new perspective: school bully will encounter campus bullying. Earlier, some people seemed to think that children who were involved in campus bullying were a minority, or that only children with poor grades and unattractive children were vulnerable to bullying. But this is not the case. There is an asymptotic process of bullying. First, find fault and try to see how you deal with it. If you do not respond properly, you may be bullied. As long as you want to pick the prick, everything can be a reason - bad grades, good grades, beautiful, unbeautiful, new, strange accent, strange face, what do you look at? The beginning of campus bullying is all related to small groups. There are only a few people in these small groups, some of whom are large, some of whom are in the class, some even in grades or even in social life. Adults may feel naive, but these half - sized children are seriously imitating the adult society, learning the expansionist according to the interpretation of imagination and film and television dramas, which is why students are particularly easily stared at. Some people say that this is a bullying. In fact, the key to cheating is to try and win new people. Many children will experience friction with some small campus groups, and how these frictions will develop will eventually lead children to be recognized or excluded by small groups. It must be emphasized that not all friction with small groups in campus will evolve to the bullying of campus. Campus bullying is the result of the deterioration of the relationship, and in the process of the evolution of the relationship, many variables play a role, including the energy and moral constraints of small groups, including the character, ability and means of the target, including the intervention of the outsiders, such as teachers and parents. It is very important to urge schools to strengthen management, but this usually only plays a supporting role. If the energy of a small group is relatively large, it is possible to maintain an influence under the eye of the school; the intervention of the school must be done, because every hard and unsuccessful intervention may make the child more isolated. Small school groups are so common that friction is so common that it is difficult to stay in such an environment, and many children will always be tempted or provoked, even if they are not being bullied. For some consideration, they dont have to talk to parents or teachers, but they need spiritual fulcrum, better from parents, and let them know whenever they have a dependable person behind them, so that he is no longer a lonely soldier and has a way and strength to cope with, not to rely on it. Join a group to find a sense of security, and do not make an ineffective counterattack and make each other get an inch - when the other person is rare, it is not easy to cross the border into bullying. Please ensure that children always have such a spiritual fulcrum, because when he is fighting, parents and teachers can not always see. The source of this article: Red Net Author: Wu Yunqing responsible editor: Ji Ke _b6492 Small school groups are so common that friction is so common that it is difficult to stay in such an environment, and many children will always be tempted or provoked, even if they are not being bullied. For some consideration, they dont have to talk to parents or teachers, but they need spiritual fulcrum, better from parents, and let them know whenever they have a dependable person behind them, so that he is no longer a lonely soldier and has a way and strength to cope with, not to rely on it. Join a group to find a sense of security, and do not make an ineffective counterattack and make each other get an inch - when the other person is rare, it is not easy to cross the border into bullying. Please ensure that children always have such a spiritual fulcrum, because when he is fighting, parents and teachers can not always see.